Other Pisces men are too “beyond” to be seduced by media items.You must convince him that you are an embodiment of the Tantric Love Goddess, and you must never reveal your mundane flaws lest you burst his bliss bubble.When we did go home after, he went out by himself and didn’t come home for about three days. I was the one to say, “I don’t love you anymore,” that I wanted a divorce. It wasn’t that he didn’t know my deep unhappiness and dissatisfaction with our marriage but maybe he hadn’t taken our previous conversations seriously enough.When he arrived home, he arrived to a note that I had written to him that basically said, “If you can’t be a husband or a father, you can’t live here anymore.” And so he left. On the other hand, I felt if he’s not even going to be bothered to hang around the house at Christmas time with the kids, then staying together for the kids is hypocritical because he wasn’t around for the kids. “If you’re not going to be here for me or your children, then what the heck’s the point? I think he’d been expecting a list of behaviors that he could work on.Frankly, it would be a lot easier to distract him from the day-to-day problems of relationship by keeping him high.Either that, or make his life so easy — by taking care of dreary tasks like paying his bills and brushing his teeth — that he won’t feel challenged by life’s difficulties, thanks to your efforts to shield him.If you have good rapport with your child, have regular talks with them and they respect you, then it is important that you get their approval.Check his credentials: If you have a toddler or baby and the guy is okay with dating you, then this next step is important.
Maybe the real you didn’t compare to the fantasy you, and he just couldn’t bear the dissonance between the two.
You may need to run some sort of background check or something to know what kind of temperament the guy has.
A suave, zen-like guy who can hold in his inner lion is great but if you have a temper tantrum throwing lunatic around your baby, you need to drop him like a bad habit.
Send him a CARE package containing a dime bag and a DVD you think would turn him on.
Throw in a burned CD of some hard-to-find Dave Matthews gig, and he’ll know you mean business.